When Wisdom Arrives: From Imagined Unworthiness to Freedom
Exciting News: When Wisdom Arrives Audiobook & Special Edition Release!
I’m thrilled to share some exciting updates about “When Wisdom Arrives: From Imagined Worthiness to Freedom.”
The audiobook is now available on over 120 platforms worldwide, including easily accessible sites like Spotify, Audible, and Lantern. In addition, Bedside Reading is featuring When Wisdom Arrives as a complimentary gift in luxe hotels throughout the US. They are featuring my book on their audio venues and in their print media.
Thank you, Bedside Reading and Muse Literary, for this incredible honor. Here’s the new cover:


“If thoughts and feelings were TRUTH, they would be called Facts.” In the pages of this fable and companion memoir, we learn about TRUTH and the simple way we can transcend the lie of unworthiness. Imagined unworthiness shows up as a tyranny of thoughts and feelings that cause psychological suffering.

How this book came about…
When Wisdom Arrives: From Imagined Unworthiness to Freedom is a memoir fable about the worst and the best of my life. In 2018, we got a call that our beloved 39 year old daughter was no longer alive. I remember thinking, “What? This can’t be real. Did the policeman just say it was too late to revive her?”
Melissa had just sent me a text that said, “Mom, always shine with your full brilliance no matter what!” My husband and I and Melissa’s sister went through exactly what you would imagine: soul searing pain, intermingled with shock. Sometimes we had to pinch ourselves to make sure we were not in a joint nightmare. How could this be happening to people who had been so lucky in life?
However, I never lost my connection to Melissa after she died. Actually, the contrary happened. My life seemed to be catapulted out of where I had settled, a happy retirement from being a psychotherapist for over 30 years. More and more I was internally pushed from a private life walking the Camino and doing artistic adventures to working with people again. I was being asked to teach and speak to people about how I stepped out of psychological suffering into acceptance of what happened. What I learned from my journey into pain is that Acceptance of what happens to us, allows us a different experience that I call living in a Radical Now. The Radical Now is free from the looping thoughts and feelings that keep us struck. My stepping out of retirement led to teaching more Master Enneagram classes (see my offerings), speaking engagements, and finally the memoir fable.
Imagined Unworthiness Quiz and Gift
I was prompted to write the book when I noticed in one of my private meetings that people struggled with the language of the Non-Duality Direct Path. In When Wisdom Arrives: From Imagined Unworthiness to Freedom, I use none of the usual words to reveal how the main character was able to find her okayness from feeling unacceptable.
In the book, Wisdom shares a new idea with the main character that if thoughts and feelings were truth, we would call them facts. Both feelings and thoughts change, but there is something within us that is always present to notice the changes. Through our upbringing we have been taught to focus on the past and future. But, freedom comes to us only in the NOW.
Receive my free Imagined Unworthiness Quiz and Gift. Enjoy the complimentary video class, and when you’re ready, book a no-cost session so we can explore your next steps toward living as your fullest, most expressed self.
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